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Post by Ebony on Feb 15, 2006 20:49:09 GMT
My son has been in a very abusive relationship where his girlfriend beat him on a daily basis, and has even cut him up on occasion with a knife. She is also very verbally abusive and has totally destroyed his self esteem. She has also destroyed most of his property including his truck. He paid for her schooling, and lots of other things, and she spent his savings leaving him in a financial bind. A few days ago I was able to help him cut the rope holding them together, but he is very vulnerable and talks about going back to her. I'm asking for your prayers to whatever gods and goddesses you have, in preventing him from getting back with this girl.  |
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Post by watershield on Feb 16, 2006 1:40:25 GMT
I am sorry to hear of his troubles.
I have a daughter who went through he same type of pain.
It's not easy to be a parent and watch this take place and sometimes feel that what ever you do won't be enough.
My thoughts are with you and your son in these difficult times.
Eya va - Peace be yours
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Post by me on Feb 16, 2006 2:59:06 GMT
im sorry but for me if he wants her back then he obviously hasnt told you the whole truth, i cant and wont call him a liar or anything of the sort but at the end of the dayits no ones choice but his own, let him decide what he wants no matter how hard it is for others to accept otherwise hell hate those who stood in the way of his own decisions
if a lesson is to be learned the gods will show the way, not by those who preach them.me
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Post by Verminda Spirit on Feb 16, 2006 7:30:14 GMT
(((((Hugs))))) Ebony....Im so sorry to hear that your son has gone through this, but like WS and ME have already said, he will make his own choices, whether you believe it to be the right one or not....All you can do is to be there like the loving mother you are....
Ebony, if you are interested there are a few Crystals that you may be interested to know that can aid in cutting ties....
Malachite, but must only be used in its polished form as this stone is toxic, however its a good protection stone and absorbs negative energies, if you do use this stone, cleanse it before and after use....Placing it in a pouch and carrying it on you is a good idea...
Green Obsidian, helps to remove ties from other people and protects against repetition.....
Rainbow Obsidian also cuts ties especially the cords of old lovers.....Another one is Petalite.....
Ruby Aura is good for protection against aggression and violence and Sun Stone is another for cutting ties especially against possessive lovers and will also lift any dark moods.....
My thoughts are with you and your son and a candle burns to give him the strength needed to guide him into making the right descision...
May he be surrounded in love and light, blessings, Earth...
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Post by fireyangel on Feb 16, 2006 12:05:45 GMT
Adding a different perspective to it some time it is better the devil you know than the devil you don't and the fear of lonliness is oft harder than fear of abuse.
May he find strength and a love that is beautiful for him
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Post by seleena on Feb 16, 2006 14:29:07 GMT
Ebony, I agree with all who have posted here. My brother went through a similar situation and is married to a woman who WAS very abusive. Thankfully she got help and is a wonderful mother and wife now. She still struggles everyday with anger, but has come a long way. It is a hard road to see a loved one be in a situation where their sense of who they are is ripped to shreads.
All you can do is be there for him and hopefully, he will see her for what she is, or she will see herself for what she is. That is all you can do.
Love and peace surrounds you and him and the arms of the Lord and Lady wrap you in their love.
Love and light
Seleena
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Post by Ebony on Feb 16, 2006 20:33:45 GMT
Thank you all for your words of wisdom. Sometimes it's good to be slapped out of my caretaker role and step back a bit to see the whole picture instead of just what I want to see. Thanks for your blessings, and I know he will ultimately make the right decisions. I will try some of the stones you mention Earth Angel. Where did you find this info? I haven't been able to find most of these stones in the books I have and I would be interested in any new information I can get my hands on. Thanks all again  |
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Post by Verminda Spirit on Feb 16, 2006 21:13:07 GMT
Ebony, i do Crystal healing and the book i use and would'nt be without is 'The Crystal Bible' by Judy Hall.....This book covers all the major stones and those that are also less known and recently discovered stones......A must for all crystal healers and crystal lovers....Hope this helps....  |
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Post by Ebony on Feb 16, 2006 21:56:15 GMT
I've been into crystals and crystal healing for a long time. I have seen this book and was going to buy it as soon as finances allowed. Now I have incentive to fill my "change sock" ! Thanks!
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Post by Verminda Spirit on Feb 17, 2006 9:10:49 GMT
lol Ebony....Its a very good book, beautifully illustrated and a comprehensive guide to crystals, their shapes, colours and applications...The directory helps you to find a crystal instantly or to identify an unknown crystal.....The directory covers the practical and esoteric properties of each crystal, including spiritual, mental, psychological, emotional and physical effects, plus its use in healing....
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Post by seleena on Feb 17, 2006 13:44:13 GMT
I will have to look for that book. I want to learn more about Chrystals. I know more about Essential Oils and haven't done much with chrystals. :-)
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Post by Verminda Spirit on Feb 26, 2006 17:33:05 GMT
I return to this circle to send my thoughts to your son Ebony that he is strong when he makes the right decisions, my thoughts are also with you as you guide him and love him no matter what path he chooses....
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Post by Ebony on Feb 26, 2006 19:19:45 GMT
Thank you so much Earth Angel, and everyone who has given support and sent thoughts and energy to my son, and to me. I talked to him yesterday, and he has made the right decision, at least as far as I am concerned. He has asked this woman to never come around him again, has emptied his house of her belongings (with a police officer standing by in case she started trouble), and has moved on with his life. ;D ;D He even has a new lady in his life, and she sounds like a wonderful person, who is supporting him through this and loving him for who he is. Thank you all for your help and prayers E |
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Post by watershield on Feb 26, 2006 21:34:07 GMT
I am so pleased tohear that things are starting to come togeather for your son.
My best wishes for every success
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Post by seleena on Mar 16, 2006 18:49:05 GMT
I was wondering, Ebony. How is your son doing now? Love and energy are always present for you both. It sounds like he is on the right track.
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